The Unconscious Bliss of Divine Sexual Love

MODE of Cosmic Therapy: Immeasurable Love in Action

If I love you, I am totally unconscious of you. You do not exist to me nor does what you do affect me in any way. I am neither moved by your actions, thoughts, inclinations, desires or words. I have no thought in the direction of benefit coming from you for me. Nor is there ever a passing thought of harm to befall me because of you. I neither am disturbed by detrimental occasions that may arise between us. You are absolutely incapable of disappointing, betraying, abandoning, lying or rejecting me for my love does not recognize any level of variance or blatantly blithe imperfection. Nor does I exalt, elevate or revere, or appreciate (depend upon) you. How could I, if I am ubiquitously unaware of you?

I am not fearful of your leaving or ‘growing tired’ of me. I am neither concerned nor bothered by what you think of me. Perfect love cast out all fear. If, on the other hand, I say I love you and then require of you to please, recognize, support, advocate, praise, defend, excuse, or in any way, need something from you, I lie. I do not love you at all, but a desired anticipated response from you. It is impossible for you to be my lover for when true love exists, the lover is not present.

I am not comforted by you, nor am I dissuaded by your capriciously motivated disinterest or persuaded by your flattering apparent waxing/waning moods of joy or discontent. My love sustains me in your presence and will not be influenced nor cater to the indecisive patterns of cyclic vexation or emotionally self-projected happiness. I adore you because I am free of you and not controlled by puppet mimicked ways of cajoled preference. If I prefer one side of your personality more than another, I am futilely superfluous and uproariously vain.

I make no distinctions, nor do I distinguish any faults in/on/about/through you. I love you without boundaries, expectations or restrictions. I do not accommodate, gratify, cater or provide for you, ever. I do what I do simply because I want to do it and for no other reason. In my love for you, do I stand in rapture’s repose devoid of the presence of you or your paranoid jealous anxiety. I am not conscious of your identified loyalty, control and/or need to possess. You can not share with me a quark of definitive committed feelings in exchange for my identification with your need to feel ‘loved.’ I am not moved by you in your deliberate attempts to move me to respond, make me feel guilty or ashamed.

You are not responsible for my devotion, nor do I cherish you because of who, what and why you are. And, certainly not for anything you may perceive as your having done or given to me. I am not obligated to you in any way whatsoever. I owe you nothing as do you owe me the same. Love can not be defined nor managed. My unceasing love is a divine stream of effervescent light which can neither be turned off or on. I love you with all that my soul is capable of and everything outside of it, as well. I embrace the quintessence of your sacred radiance where no corruption abounds. The divine sexual intensity of this lighted love gives and receives life continuously without remiss. We are the product of that faultless impeccable love.

I am infused with a love so brilliant, words can not define nor actions deter. {It envelopes you; erasing you from my earthly eyes of contrary fickle sight.} In the overflowing stream of divine sexuality, I am consistently made unaware of you as the single source of exuberant pleasure which flows but liberally acknowledge the omnificent divinity from which passion does unceasingly gush. The stimulating illuminating effervescent love I embody and embrace lyrically resounds in stereophonic symphonies of bliss. My love for you is without intention and first in execution. I know not how ‘not’ to love you!

My innate forces of delighted concentration are centered upon this undaunted sensual love. My love is incomparable and serenely new in each moment of existence in the experience of you, never reaching the extended heights or descended lows by comparison. I do not wait upon you, nor you me but in the ever evasive spiraling instant of ecstatic pleasure do I know you. By not cleaving to the moment, I am washed clean of the memory of yearning for you which would only interfere with love’s consecrated innocence.

How does one define ineffable love’s erotic bliss? (Without words.) Love would be destroyed in the flash of an instant if I were to remember you or seek any attachment thereof. Now is the only time of flawlessness of love’s united beauty and grace. I can not possibly have an idea of you without it impeding the love I have for you. I must forget every notion I’ve ever devised about you in order to meet you for the first time. And, in order for me to continuously meet you again and again and again, I must remain unconscious of you so that you may be clearly unequivocally revealed. True love, practiced eternally is sublimely dominantly pulsatingly invigoratingly rejuvenating. OH! How I love thee!

I have a BS in Communication with a MA in Art Education. I am an Executive Cosmic Therapist, artist, entertainer, singer/songwriter, musician, composer, playwright, perfumer, professional astrologer, tarot consultant, Numerologist, author, teacher, speaker, poet and self-taught chef.

Have Fun With Adult Dating Services

When it comes to the dating game, a number of things should be considered as adult dating isn’t the simplest thing in the world; for example, the title itself doesn’t mean have fun while dating adults, but it represents the erotic aspect of the dating game. Still, the important part of the game is to have fun by allowing your naughty side to come out and play; women looking for fun may wear tight clothing or low cut tops to reveal a bit of cleavage and show men what they are missing. A more exposed area of the body would be the neck region, which is highly sensitive and the right kiss can give women sensations that leave them wanting more. However, adult dating isn’t purely about the need for sexual satisfaction but exploring other people’s bodies, fantasies and different types of pleasure.

When you’re in a club or bar on the weekend, you enjoy your time out with friends, colleagues etc; in the same way, you can become the perfect date by relaxing and enjoying what you are doing, rather than focusing on why you are here; good dancers and cooks love cooking and dancing, this is why they are good at their professions. A more simple explanation of this would be that when you love and enjoying doing what you do, you tend to spend more time and effect doing it to get the best results possible. Look at the way gamers play video games, they spend endless hours in front of the t.v trying to get a higher score because they know the results will be rewarding; similarly, adult dating should be enjoyed and seen as a fun encounter- who knows what it could lead to. You may even end up meeting your life partner!

Although a lot of you date to meet your prospective life partners, date because it’s fun, not because you have to. If it is not fun, then would you bother doing it?! No right? If you don’t enjoying dating then don’t just sit through another gruesome date, change it by doing something different. For those of you, who want to cut to the chase and forget the wining and dining part, try erotic adult dating, which is exactly what it says on the tin-EROTIC. It’s a form of dating that doesn’t require dating; a bedroom, sexy lingerie and explicit fantasies will do.

Just a few last points for you to consider- when you date because you enjoy it you allow others to feel good about themselves, also giving you a more than likely chance of a second or third date. When you represent yourself as a fun and happy person, other people will love to bag a date you and before you know it, you’ll be the most popular person in town. If this article sounds too good to be true, than go ahead and try enjoying your next date, you’ll come back thanking the author.

Online Dating – The 5 Biggest Mistakes People Are Making And Striking Out

Gentlemen, STOP your engines! Take a deep breath and think about it for a second! What was the first thing you learned back in high school. You know, when girls first started looking good to you. When they stopped being ICCKKY! Play it cool. Don’t seem desperate, and in a way make her wonder: Is he interested in me? Which brings us to our number 1 mistake.

1- Whatever you do, don’t come off desperate. 9 out of the 10 emails I get have these dreaded phrases in them “Please” “I’d give anything to….” “Oh my god I can’t believe” “What will it take” Any guy that seems desperate makes a gal wonder. “Hmm.. Why is this lad having such a hard time meeting women? The famous ” I wonder what’s wrong with him” There must be something wrong with him. Oh well, on to the next guy. DON’T COME OFF DESPERATE!! It’s a huge turn off!

Have you ever tried walking up to a girl in a bar, club or even on the street and pulled your pants down? Of course not. You wouldn’t be reading this. You’d be in prison doing 2-4 for indecent exposure. You know what I’m getting at! Some of you have tried this tactic and no matter how big and beautiful it may be, you struck out! Didn’t you!? The famous number 2..

2- Don’t show ‘em your dingaling prematurely. I once posted an ad in the casual encounters section of Craigslist. The things I saw!! The horror! For example “Hi beautiful, if you like what you see, email me.” “Bet you haven’t seen one this big ever in your life” or the famous “Look how excited your picture made me” Now don’t get me wrong, it’s exactly what I was searching for posting in that section. But you see, women are looking for men. We’re interested in meeting YOU not it. If all we wanted was a weewee, we’d buy one at our local adult erotic shop and avoid the headaches. It’s an encounter with someone new we’re looking for. The excitement of the unknown. Make us want it. Don’t just hand it to us on a platter. We want to work for it a little. And don’t forget the obvious fact that with everything we’ve heard on the news, the stories of women getting raped and killed, we’re a little afraid to meet the men that come off as sexual predators. So please, KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS UNTIL INSTRUCTED TO DO OTHERWISE!

So you’ve signed up on a random date site. You’ve put in your alias, your gender, and what you’re looking for. And now you avoid filling in the rest. Thinking that your alias “looking4mate72″ says it all and you don’t need to write anything else about yourself. Right? Did it work? No, it didn’t. Of course not. Don’t overlook number 3.

3- Tell us how interesting you are. If there’s nothing interesting about you, how can you get our interest? Make sense? Out of the 400 words you can enter in the field you chose to write “Hello, I’m looking for sex” well good for you, so is everyone else on here but at least they’re making an effort to attract the women. If you can’t think of anything interesting about yourself, chances are we won’t find anything either. These are the guys that go around saying “You know these dating sites are full of it. There’s no women, it’s all a scam. Dating sites are filled with real women dying to meet interesting dudes. There just don’t seem to be enough of them. Be interesting, and if you’re not, make something up! Make some sort of effort. With today’s technology we’ve been spoiled a little. But when it comes to meeting women, you have to spend a little time and energy. That’s the beauty. But if you can’t grasp this, don’t worry, I’m sure you’ll be able to download some beautiful woman on some torrent site in no time. We’re almost there. In the meantime…! keep…. you know.

Uploading your mug shot will probably not get too much attention from the sane women. You know the ones I’m talking about. No smile. The guy is starring into his webcam. You’re not sure if you’re still at the dating site or you accidentally clicked into the FBI’s most wanted list. A picture says a thousand words, make them good words.. number 4.

4- When it’s time to upload your pictures, don’t just turn on your cam and snap away. These have to be the dullest pictures I see. (I’d rather see their johnson, #2). Upload some real photos. A picture of you with your dog, you with friends, you at the beach. Something interesting! Somewhere you’ve been, something you’ve done. You, staring into your webcam, is not interesting at all. No one is going to sit there and go through 34 pictures you just took with your webcam in the dark. Creepy! You need to show us a side of you that’s going to grab our attention! Attraction is what it’s all about. NO MORE WEBCAM SHOTS!

Last but not least.. You’re going to hate this one I promise. But it’s as important or more important than the first 4… Pick a site you like, and become a member.

5- If you’re not willing to pay a few bucks a month to be a member, chances are I’m picking up the bill at the restaurant, bar, club, hotel or motel. The truth is, women rarely browse profiles of the free members that logged in once or twice. We like a little stability. We want to meet someone who’s been verified by the site. Avoids us a lot of trouble. What you’re telling women is; You’re not cheap, You’re a verified user, It’s safe to come in contact with you, you’re serious about meeting someone and again YOU’RE NOT CHEAP! If you can’t afford the membership, how are you going to meet up with me? Where will we be going? You can continue posting on those free classifieds “Anyone want me to pick her up with my car and go at it?” all you want, but you’ll be spending lots of lonely nights. And if it does work, I don’t want to see the gal that responds to that ad.

In conclusion, meeting women online is not that different from meeting women offline. Always remember that these are the same women you see in your everyday life. The difference is, it’s a lot easier to break the ice. So, why are you not succeeding at making that encounter? Is it because there are no women online? Of course not. There are as many women online as there are men. Avoiding these 5 deadly mistakes will increase your chances dramatically. Take advantage of the fact that most men are making these mistakes. There are plenty of fish in the E-SEA. Just remember to use the right bait. I’m currently on 3 dating sites myself. There are lots of single girls still looking for someone interesting to hook up with. I’m one of them. So please, if you come across me, don’t whip it out in my face, unless I ask you to!

Watching Adult Sex Videos Together – Movies Make Magic

Although they still have a stigma for many people, watching adult sex videos with your spouse can be a really great way to improve your marriage sex. Available in as many different varieties as there are types of people in the world, you can watch everything from very basic, “soft porn” as it is called to more graphic and experimental types of adult films. Sensual and erotic imagery is both visually and mentally arousing and may even plant an idea or two in your minds for what you would like to try with one another. Rather than being something that only single men watch in the dark, by themselves, while they masturbate, adult films are actually a really effective type of foreplay for many married couples.

Many couples may secretly want to watch an adult film together, but are hesitant because they are afraid to suggest it to their mate. For some women, there is a fear that their husband will find the women on film more attractive than they find them. For some men, there is concern that their wives may be turned off or find fault with their arousal. The reality is that watching adult films together can be a real bonding experience. It may take several tries to find a particular genre of adult film that works for you both, but in most cases, just the simple act of being “naughty” and watching other people getting physical is enough to start something fun for the married couple watching.

If you and your spouse have decided to watch an adult sex video together, then you should discuss what kinds of films are “OK” and which ones are “off limits”. For instance, your spouse may be uncomfortable watching a film that depicts more than one partner at a time. The object of watching an adult sex video together is to get one another turned on, not turned off, so be sensitive to one another’s preferences. One of the benefits of watching a sex video together is that you may get ideas for positions to try out. Also, having the noise in the background may also help lower your spouse’s inhibitions when it comes to expressing their pleasure vocally.

If you are looking for an easy way to improve your marriage sex life, watching adult sex videos together is a great way to start. Sit back, relax, pop in a video and let nature take its course. You may find that you are having the hottest sex of your marriage, in no time flat!

Science Supports the Need for Casual Sex Flirting

Casual sex movies make it all seem so easy. Two people meet up at a bar, share a quick drink, and then are seen passionately bouncing off hallway walls as they try to get each other’s clothes off. But is it really all so simple? And if it is, then why aren’t all bar room hallways bursting at the seams with horny hookups? The answer is…they’re not and the science behind attraction and a woman’s desire for casual sex gives a little insight into why.

In several studies, the original one conducted in 1989 and a follow-up one conducted more recently, both men and women were asked if they would have casual sex with a platonic friend – a friends with benefits arrangement – or if they would have casual sex with a complete stranger. In both studies it showed that men were more likely to agree to a quickie than their female counterpart. So if you are a man and want to get a more favorable response to the question, “Will you go to bed with me?” there are few basic things that you need to understand about the women who are most likely to say yes.

Whether you meet a potential partner through an adult online dating site, through a friend, or in a pub, the basics of getting that person to agree to a one night stand or no strings attached relationship include a little flirting. Yes, even with casual sex you need a little flirting.

Science has suggested two theories explaining what women look for. The first theory reaches back to our caveman roots and the evolutionary reasons for having sex – survival of the species. In this explanation the woman needs to be choosy about their hook up mate since they expect them to stick around to help change diapers and buy formula. They want a man they can depend on.

The second theory is one that we can better get our minds around when talking about casual sex and that is the Pleasure Theory. We are all hardwired to pursue pleasure. This is the type of wiring that you guys need to stand up and take notice of. Yes, woman will be more likely to say yes to a casual relationship when they perceive that they are going to get a little pleasure from it…or more likely, a lot of pleasure. Women want to orgasm and they will be more willing to give it a shot with a guy (or girl) that is likely to provide it.

So let’s put the two theories together and create a better mousetrap. Guys, if you want casual sex then you need to convince a woman that they can depend on you to give them an orgasm!

How is this done? Well, to discover that you may just want to follow me and get some advice on some good old fashioned flirting and seduction. That is something that never goes out of style no matter if it’s casual sex or true love sex that you are after.

Erotic Adult Lingerie For Women

Often women are so immersed in their outward appearance that they start neglecting what is within. This is the case with many of us women, who are interested in beautifying themselves from the very core, always pay special attention to their choice of under garments. Adult lingerie always had a great role to play in women’s lives.

Adult lingerie comes in a wide variety of sizes and shape. So whether you are a skinny sexy lass or a plus size with alluring curves you can easily choose your adult lingerie from this wide range of sizes. They also offer you to choose from a variety of designs and cuts.

Whereas some stick to your body like a wet swim suit, some may drape around your curves smoothly like a piece of cloth. Some of them are designed especially for special dresses to be worn by you in different occasions. For example you should wear a strapless bra with an off shoulder dress and similarly. Women of today know very well how important it is to match the under wear with your dress.

It is not just the color but also the design and cut of the dress that determine the kind of under wear that should be worn with it in order to look hot and sexy. The wrong underwear can ruin your effort of dressing up completely! So make sure you pick the right adult lingerie when you wear something out of the ordinary.

However, then you wear adult lingerie, you should be able to carry it out with perfect ease and confidence. If you are shy and uncomfortable wearing it, the lingerie alone can not make you the hot babe. But if you have the figure and are proud of it, wearing adult lingerie will only enhance the eroticism within you and nothing in this world can stop your partner from getting excited.

In fact, adult lingerie is one of the most effective tools to arouse excitement in your partner if things have just got stagnated for sometime. Kinky underwear and sexy bras can make him drool and bring back the passion that he had when he met you for the first time.

They can easily spice up your life in a unique way! So if you are one of those people, who still wear the old fashioned, ordinary, trashy undergarments all the time but are really eager to try out something new and exciting, then it is time for you to switch over to adult lingerie. They will not just change the way you look but also the ay you feel at present. They will rekindle the flame of eroticism in your life and help you to reinvent yourself in a very special way!

Vintage Adult Comics

As how they are obviously referred to, vintage adult comics are a reflection of ancient era or golden times. These are comics released in the 13th and 14th century and these days, they are difficult to get hold of. Other collectors aren’t just limiting themselves to the 1940-50′s collections, though. They follow until the 1970 releases of these comics.

Hundreds of comics were circulated in the golden age of magazines and literature. These materials were published using old kinds of papers. Vintage, as we hear of it, sounds valuable and rare. And yes, it definitely is rare to find some collections of books, magazines, comics or anything done five to seven decades ago.

The young adolescent and adult groups have let loose their inhibitions of browsing over these vintage adult comics that flaunt boldness, sexiness, sophistication and seventh heaven. The erotic side of life is presented in its creatively enticing manner through sexy pictures of women and passionate scenarios of couples in love and lust. There is no denying that men are continuous followers of these kinds of readable stuff. Sensual women are even getting open-minded to explore the so-called hobby but rarely do they declare such actuation.

As vintage comics like Batman, Flash Gordon, Superman, Green Lantern and Spiderman gained popularity back then, the emergence of vintage adult comics followed through their successes. Instead of heroic and funny themes, love and passion are usual concepts of the adult category of magazines and comics, that’s why they are for adults only. Thought not many people recognize it, comics are a serious business, too, just like movies, bars, Internet porn, among others.

Since the 1970′s, the worth of vintage adult comics has consistently multiplied due to their huge demand from investors and collectors. If you collect any of these vintage stuffs, you are likely to earn a good bit of dollars as they are usually appraised as valuable. It seems like a standard notion that if you own something vintage, you can benefit largely.

The approach employed in vintage adult comics is dependent on culture and lifestyle of a certain country it is being released. There are those that are too erotic that may not be appreciated by some. Basically, they’re identified to be of European, Japanese and American themes.

Vintage adult comics are usually of erotic conceptions and graphics, sometimes identified as artistic outputs of pornography. The sexuality of both men and women in the same setting is depicted as real as it can be to educate and stimulate the senses of the readers. Sensuality in a human being is but normal as long as it is done within grounds of matrimony. However, the world has accepted reality that bites, thus there isn’t any critical judgment aimed to those enjoying the art of making love out of marriage.

Can a Sex Instructional Video Help Improve Your Love Life?

Whether you’re young or old, rich or poor, sex is probably one of the most talked about, if not controversial, topics in the whole world. Everyone needs sex, not just for procreation, but for pleasure and strengthening of a relationship as well. You can’t talk about romantic love without including sex in the equation so if you’re currently in a relationship and you want to make your love story last, you should definitely start working on your sex life. But how do you start? Though you’ll find a lot of great ideas online on how you can spice up your love life, there is really only one way that can help you take your sex life up a notch. Want to know what a sex instructional video can do for your relationship? Then don’t hesitate to read on.

Assuming that you and your lover both have open minds towards this subject, a sex instructional video can do wonders for your relationship. But do bear in mind that this option isn’t for everyone. If you’ve just started dating, make sure to have an open discussion with your partner on how he or she feels about using this sort of videos. This way, you’ll be able to avoid causing offense or any awkward moments that may lead to future misunderstandings in the relationship.

Helps You Become A Better Lover

Sure a sex instructional video may not be a necessity in making a relationship work, but it can help you make it stronger. A sex instructional video can help you become a better lover as it can provide you with tips and techniques that will make every sexual encounter worthy to be remembered. From oral techniques to different sex positions, you’ll be able to reinvent yourself as the ultimate lover once you’re done watching the video.

Allows You To Open Your Line Of Communication

Another benefit that you can get from incorporating the sex instructional video into your bedroom routine is that you’ll get a much more open communication line between you and your partner. Just by watching the video together, you’ll feel much more comfortable expressing what you want sexually and your partner will be more open to tell you what he or she would like to try out. When used properly, a sex instructional video will be able to help you form a stronger bond emotionally and physically.

If you’re interested in purchasing sex instructional videos, there are a number of ways that you can easily get your hands on them. First off, check out what your local adult bookstores or sex shops have on offer. Although these shops usually have an extensive line up of different adult videos that you can choose from, make sure that you choose a sex instructional video and not just a porn flick. If you’re not comfortable with the idea of visiting these shops or you just don’t have the time, start your search online instead. The great thing about purchasing online is that you not only have access to a wide array of different titles, but you’ll also get to shop anonymously.

Sexual Love – Dangers of Sexless Marriage

Most women view sexual fulfilment from the angle of ‘quality’ that is performance of sex while men view it from the angle of ‘quality’ and ‘Quantity’. One funny thing about sex in marriage is, you can increase the quantity of sex by focusing on the quality. The dangers of a sexless marriage includes:

(1) Adultery: The greatest danger of lack of sexual fulfilment at home is adultery. Though people involved have no excuse to be unfaithful, we need to tell all couples that, the best way to avoid infidelity in your home is to satisfy each other sexually. Every couple should build a good and deep sexual life so as to avoid infidelity as much as possible.

(2) Sexual Immoralities: Apart from adultery, sexless marriages promote other sexual immoralities such as masturbation, incest or rape. Though sexual denial is not a genuine reason for these kinds of sexual misbehavior, good and exciting sex in a marriage may help to eliminate them.

(3) Anger and Strife: Men are known to take it angrily when their wife denies them sex. It is seen as a rejection of their manhood. This do lead to anger and unnecessary strife. To avoid these, women should learn to satisfy their men. Husbands also should learn to behave maturely when their wives cannot meet their sexual needs.

(4) Frustration: Sexless marriages do lead to frustration. This can lead to crisis at home. This can also lead to bitterness, malice and resentment.This should be prevented as much as possible.

(5) Constant misunderstanding: It can generate unnecessary misunderstanding and argument. In a sexless marriage, it is easy for negative remarks and lack of communication to occur. Little misunderstanding can also lead to a major crisis.

(7) Poor Marriage: Sexless marriage more often do lead to bad marriages where wicked actions, aggressive, corrosive reactions, bad remarks, abusive words, curses and slander are very common.

Bisi Adewale is a family expert and president of college of marital success, He is an international conference speaker and an author of more than 30 books on marriage and family life, singles, love, sex and purity and intimacy. He is the host of family T.V. program called Family Booster.

The Joy of Sexual Friendship – The Beauty of Love Life

Experience a change in your sexual love in marriage.

Despite all the abnormal use of sexual relationships in the world today, the beauty and joy of sexual love originated and designed by God cannot fade away. One of the entire processes of becoming one as a couple is through a sexual relationship. There is joy and fulfillment in it especially when it is done within the wall of marriage.

In some churches today, sexual love is considered an area so sacred, and thereby must not be talked about, discussed, or touched in our sermon or highly emphasized. Yet, this has been one of the areas where the devil has been attacking our homes. And I suppose we have to deal with this issue from a different angle. As the saying goes, where the enemy attacks you, there you attack him most.

Broken marriages are not the plans of God they are the designs of men. Some pastors and teachers of God’s word avoid speaking about sex on the pulpit, forgotten that this have been the heart cry of so many who could not enjoy their spouses in marriage. God did not make mistake by making man both male and female. It will do us a lot of good to understand that God who instituted marriage has a beautiful plan for us regarding the area of sex. Therefore, one of the ways to enjoy your marriage is through sexual intimacy between you and your spouse.

YOUR BODY AND YOUR GOD.

You must understand that your body is not your own. It belongs to God who made you. You are not permitted to use it as you want. Imagine you hiring a car and you want to change the color of that car without the consent of the owner. I guess that might put you into a fresh trouble and queries.

Likewise, your body is not what you can use as you like. Any illicit sex with a man or woman outside marriage is considered immoral and sinful. It is unlawful, destructive and an abuse to your own body as well. Therefore, you must understand the purpose of your body, it actually belongs to God. So one of the ways you can respect God and your body, is to stay away from any immoral act, keep yourself pure, clean and be far from affairs outside your home.

However, if you are a single, this should not be an opportunity misused. But rather an opportunity to prepare yourself for the future and plan your goals in life.

YOUR BODY AND YOUR SPOUSE.

What do you think the government will do if a man is being charged with credit card fraud? Refund, prison or locked up? I guess one will do. But how about if God charges you with marriage fraud? God says it is a fraud when you use your body as a man or woman in sexual intimacy outside your matrimonial home. You are regarded as far as God is concern a fraudster of marriage.

Therefore it is your responsibilities as a man or woman to keep your body pure, sacred and special for your spouse only. That is marital fidelity. You must not deprive or defraud your spouse for whatever reason. When your spouse is been deprived of his or her sexual need or conjugal right, the beauty of marriage is mixed up with both bitterness and hatred. The man or the woman will be seeking for an opportunity to revenge, either by doing the same thing, or the worst thing. But when you understand that the body is not yours, it takes no effort or struggle to yield yourself to your spouse when occasion demands.

DO YOU DEFRAUD OR DEPRIVE?

Marriage has boundaries. As long as you are both joined together as one, you and your spouse must live within the boundaries of your marriage. Once you are joined together your bodies belong to each other. And none of you has any right over his or her body. You own equal rights over each others’ body.

Therefore, going out of the wall of your marriage to defraud another man’s wife or husband is a move beyond your boundaries. Even when the person you are defrauding is a single, you are already defrauding God who is preparing that woman for another man, and that man for another woman in future marriage.

You are only permitted to rule within the context of your boundaries. (i.e. you and your spouse). Don’t peep, sneak or snitch. Your boundary walls will always give a sign that you have been warned.

PUTTING AWAY- A serious issue.

When there is repeated refusal of conjugal sex in a marriage, couples are already digging the foundation of divorce. Depriving, denying or starving each other on the issue of sexual love is the greatest crime ever committed. Even God will not overlook it. Some men punished their wives by going all about with girlfriends. They let their wives see how better those ladies can be than them. They hide behind jobs, complaining of hectic day, extra time, night duties and some other tactics of immoral men. They often show that they are not interested in the woman as there are alternatives and many options. The man spends several nights outside hiding behind night duties without considering the woman’s feeling and emotion.

On the other hand, some women have punished their husbands severely in this area as well. They feel that it is an opportunity to catch the man. He begs and begs for him to have a taste of his right.

On the other hand, some women have punished their husband severely in this area as well. They often feel that is an opportunity to catch the man. Some even demands for instant cash if the man must have a taste. So he begs continually for him to have a feel or taste of his conjugal right. Even when she finally admits after much complains, terms and conditions, the man is very frustrated doing it. Why? Because it is so cold and dry, nothing is enjoyable. He is the only performer. He jacks with all frustrations and depressions, feeling enslaved to sex.

When this continues in a man’s life, it is called “defrauding and depriving”. It is a fraud. Not because you steal some cash but because you are depriving each other. The secret of marriage happiness lies in understanding that your bodies are meant for each other.

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